De facto union
It
is now common in our society for two people to live together without
being married or joined in a civil union. Their choice of lifestyle
is known as a de facto union.
Do partners
in a de facto union have rights, and do they have any obligations
towards each other and their children? Where does the law stand on
this type of union?
These
questions and many others will no doubt be of interest to you; let
us take a closer look at some of them.
•
De facto union and the law
• Protect yourself
• Contract for living together
• Family residence
• Children
• Breakup or death
• Your rights and freedoms
De
facto union and the law
In the
Civil Code of Québec, a deliberate choice has been made not
to subject couples living in a de facto union to the same rights and
responsibilities as couples who are married or joined in a civil union,
regardless of the number of years they have lived together. In other
words, the law respects their choice of lifestyle.
However,
although the Civil Code does not generally regulate the status of
couples in a de facto union, certain laws view de facto spouses, whether
of the same or the opposite sex, as a couple, particularly those governing
social assistance, legal aid, income tax, the Québec Pension
Plan and workers’ compensation. As the terms and requirements
of these laws vary greatly, you should contact the various government
departments and agencies which administer them to find out how they
apply to you.
Protect
yourself
Your
decision to live in a de facto union may well reflect a desire to
base your lifestyle on principles of equality and free choice. To
avoid misunderstandings and unfair treatment, it is important to clarify
your beliefs and expectations concerning your life as a couple and
as a family.
Verbal
agreements can be disputed. It is a good idea to set down, in writing,
your respective positions in a contract for living together, which
you are advised to sign before a notary or a lawyer, once you have
found out about your rights and obligations.
This
contract cannot be altered or terminated by either spouse acting alone.
However, depending on circumstances and events, you and your spouse
can make changes which are mutually acceptable at any time. The contract
for living together is the only protection you can give each other
in terms of a legal framework for your relationship as a couple and,
in the event of a dispute, constitutes irrefutable proof of what you
have agreed.
The contract
for living together can cover any aspect of daily life, establish
terms and conditions relating to children or the family residence,
and even include provisions that will apply if your relationship breaks
down, or if one of you dies.
Contract
for living together
Property
A contract
for living together may specify the exact value of each spouse’s
assets, with a list of all household goods and the name of the owner(s).
A car, cottage, and furniture are major items, but it might be just
as important to keep an account of all smaller items (linens, dishes,
etc.), whose combined value may be considerable. It is in the interest
of both spouses to identify and keep their own bills, for if one spouse
sells or gives away property belonging to the other, or to both of
them, the other spouse can then take legal action.
In the
event of a breakup, the property is divided according to the terms
and conditions of the contract, which cannot be altered by the court
even if it is required to intervene.
Sharing
of responsibilities
You can
also agree on each spouse’s contribution to household expenses
and shared responsibility for any debts you may have. You should be
careful not to allocate the entire income of one spouse to a single
item, such as groceries or childcare – you are free to choose
the terms of the agreement, but it must be fair if disputes are to
be avoided.
Power
of attorney
When
entering into a contract before a notary or lawyer, it is advisable
to sign a power of attorney authorizing each spouse to act on the
other’s behalf under “special’’ circumstances.
Should one of you suffer a serious illness or accident, this power
of attorney could prove indispensable in settling certain affairs
such as the sale of a house. Your relationship is not legally recognized,
so why run the risk of finding yourself entangled in legal problems?
Gifts
You can
take advantage of a contract for living together to specify any gifts
you intend to make to each other. For example, one spouse may promise
to pay the other $15,000 on reaching retirement, or to give a cottage
as a gift. Perhaps the promised amount cannot be paid, or the cottage
has already been sold to someone else, but in the latter case, although
the agreement to sell cannot be broken, the injured party will be
entitled to claim damages and interest.
Family
residence
A couple
living in a de facto union is not entitled to the protection offered
to individuals who are married or joined in a civil union under the
Civil Code of Québec with respect to the family residence.
You may not register a declaration of family residence; consequently,
one de facto spouse may sell or rent the residence of which he or
she is the sole owner without telling the other spouse.
Joint
ownership
In a
de facto union, joint ownership of a house is the best mutual protection
two people can give each other. The same holds true for the purchase
of other buildings or land. In general, joint ownership of a couple’s
home or other property is established by way of a notarized contract.
If a
mortgage loan must be taken out to purchase a house, the couple’s
ability to repay, and not their marital status, serves as the lending
institution’s main criterion for deciding whether to grant the
loan.
In the
event of a breakup, the contract for living together can provide for
the purchase by one spouse of the other’s share, or perhaps
for a right of residence or even the transfer of full ownership to
the spouse who has custody of the children.
Joint
leases
With
respect to housing, the only “protection’’ provided
in the Civil Code of Québec for couples living in a de facto
union is the right, for the spouse who has been left, to continue
occupying the dwelling in which the couple lived before the breakup
even though he or she did not sign the lease. To take advantage of
this right, the spouse must have lived in the dwelling with the actual
tenant for at least six months and still be living in it, and the
landlord must be notified within two months of the departure of the
spouse who signed the lease.
Children
Rights
and obligations
Parents,
whether they are married, joined in a civil union or living in a de
facto union, have the same rights and obligations with respect to
their children.
All children
are equal in the eyes of the law, regardless of their parents’
marital status, and all are legally entitled to inherit the estate
of their parents, grandparents, etc., unless excluded from a will.
In addition, their parents must provide for their basic needs, in
other words education, a home, food and clothes.
The only
legal requirement for a child to inherit the estate of his or her
parents or grandparents is that filiation be clearly established,
in other words that the father and mother can be positively identified.
Acknowledgment
of children
Contrary
to a widespread belief, parents who are not married or joined in a
civil union are not required to adopt their child in order to have
him or her recognized as their own.
At the
time of birth, both the mother and father must complete and sign a
declaration of birth before a witness, who will also sign it. This
declaration constitutes an acknowledgment of the child.
The declaration
of birth indicates the place of birth, the last names and given names
of the child, the sex of the child, the date and time of birth, the
parents’ marital status and relationship with the child, as
well as the address of the parents’ domicile and that of the
witness.
Within
thirty days of the birth, the parents are required to send the declaration
of birth to the Registrar of civil status, along with a copy of the
attestation of birth given to the parent(s) by the physician or any
other person who attended the birth.
You may
specify in your contract for living together that a decision that
one of the spouses will take care of the couple’s children full-time
will be made by mutual consent, perhaps with financial or other compensation
for the contribution to the family’s well-being. You may also
agree to invest certain sums of money for the future needs of your
children (for example, by investing your family allowances to provide
for their education).
Moreover,
in the event of a breakup, you may provide for compensation, with
guarantees of payment, for the parent who will have custody of the
children.
Breakup
or death
The provisions
of the Civil Code of Québec concerning the family patrimony
do not apply to couples living in a de facto union. It is important
for de facto spouses to ensure a fair division of their property,
by means of a written document and a detailed will, to prevent the
many different problems that may occur following a breakup or death.
Breakup
In the
event of a breakup, the settlement may be made according to the contract
for living together, which must be respected in its entirety to settle
all matters concerning the couple: gifts, division of property, lump
sum payments, etc.
If there
is a contract, it must be respected by both parties; if it is not
respected, an appeal may be made to the court to have it enforced.
The only clauses of the contract which may be altered by the judge,
should court intervention be required, are those involving the rights
and well-being of the children (child support, custody, visiting rights,
etc.).
The settlement
may also be made by means of an agreement of dissolution reached by
the de facto spouses with or without the assistance of a mediator,
notary or lawyer, whether or not they have entered into a contract
for living together during the period of cohabitation.
This
agreement sets out the terms and conditions regarding the division
of property, custody of the children and the applicable child-support
payments. The access rights of the parent who does not have custody
of the children may also be set out in this agreement. In working
out an agreement of dissolution you may seek the aid of a family mediator
or legal advisor. As a last recourse, you may take your case to court.
When
cohabitation ends, no matter how long it lasted, de facto spouses
do not have to make any support payments to one another. For example,
even though you are in need and your ex-spouse earns a high income,
you may not claim any support payments to provide for your own needs.
However, the obligation for each of the parents to provide for their
children remains.
De facto
spouses who separated after June 30, 1999, whether they are of the
same or opposite sex, can file a joint application for partition of
their employment earnings recorded under the Québec Pension
Plan for the period during which they lived in a de facto union. Before
making a decision on the matter, it would be advisable to apply to
the Régie des rentes du Québec for a simulation of the
effects of the partition. This service is offered free of charge.
You can download the Application for simulated partition of employment
earnings or click here to order a copy.
Death
If one
of the spouses dies, the law does not recognize the surviving spouse
in a de facto union as a legal heir. If the spouse dies without a
will, the estate is divided among the legal heirs of the deceased
spouse (children or father and mother; brothers and sisters; etc.),
according to the rules in the Civil Code of Québec that deal
with successions. Thus, de facto spouses who wish to leave property
to each other must do so in a will.
Only
a surviving de facto spouse who has been named as a beneficiary is
entitled to the proceeds of a life insurance policy.
Since
access to a joint bank account and safety deposit box is blocked until
the final settlement of the deceased’s estate, it is advisable
to have separate accounts and safety deposit boxes. Furthermore, when
the safety deposit box contains bearer bonds, jewellery or money,
there is a risk that this property may be included in the estate if
ownership cannot be proven.
Your
rights and freedoms
In Québec,
there are four laws confirming the basic rights and freedoms of the
individual and prohibiting discrimination: